Sweet surrender. Lay down your weary head and rest.

Tonight I put my five year old son to bed, with his cozy truck jammies on his precious little body, his favorite cuddly under his arm, and our 90 pound dog curled up tight next to his shoulders (we’re having thunderstorms here in Texas, and my dog likes a lap during thunderstorms. Really, really likes [...]

Stuck in a sugar or overeating habit? The radical solution to change.

It can feel maddening when we find ourselves doing the same thing over and over – like being stuck in a pattern of overeating or sugar bingeing – especially when we know better intellectually. We really, *really* know what to do. So why don’t we do it? In my experience, change is not a matter [...]

What to do when being kind to yourself feels like giving up

I receive a lot of very tender, precious emails from women that all say some version of the same thing – Help! Now that I’m being kinder to myself I’m feeling really *really* unmotivated to: go to the gym to lose the extra weight to set any boundary on food Most women share that they [...]

How to get free of sugar addiction for life

Many of you know that I went back to sugar during 2010. (It began with whole can of raisins and went downhill from there…..) It was a humbling, frustrating, very, very difficult time in my life. Pretty much everything in my life was falling apart. So many of my deepest fears came true. I was [...]

How to handle the Easter candy

Last week during my Target shopping I was bombarded by the Easter candy. Are you feeling nervous about Easter, wondering how you’ll make it through the holiday without overdoing it? Dear one, you’re not alone. I’d like to share what helps me so that you can take a deep breath, exhale and soften your anxiety [...]

Using food as your “voice”

The theme of honesty is showing up for me over and over lately. (It’s getting rather comical.) I’m reminded of one of my favorite poets, Mary Oliver. Her poem Wild Geese begins with these lines: You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees For a hundred miles [...]

Being kind to “negative” feelings

I don’t have PMS today. I swear. But everything is rubbing me the wrong way – that irky combination of feeling overstimulated/stressed/tense and exhausted at the same time, like I want to sleep all day and also scream at the sky! In our house, we call this feeling “inside out.” These feelings are. not. comfortable. [...]

A Body You Love

Do you love your body? If you’re like most people, you probably don’t. You may have heard that eighty percent of women are dissatisfied with their bodies. They want to change something about themselves, or everything! I used to loathe my body. I hated it with a passion that burned hotter than Jude Law—I still [...]

Uprooting our deepest suffering

For most of my adult life, I’ve suffered from various forms of mental illness. I’ve had over 20 years of eating disorders, 15 years of on and off depression, and lifelong challenges with anxiety. I’ve also struggled to cope with several other traits, that while not mental illness, are often misunderstood and shamed by our [...]

The Need to Feel Wanted

I want men to find me attractive. It satisfies my ego when a man wants me. Isn’t it fun to make a head turn? Especially as we get older and realize that our looks just aren’t the same as they were in our twenties and early thirties. I realize this need to be seen as [...]