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		<title>A Body You Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 02:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Holly Alastra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you love your body? If you’re like most people, you probably don’t. You may have heard that eighty percent of women are dissatisfied with their bodies. They want to change something about themselves, or everything! I used to loathe my body. I hated it with a passion that burned hotter than Jude Law—I still [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Need to Feel Wanted</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Holly Alastra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want men to find me attractive. It satisfies my ego when a man wants me. Isn’t it fun to make a head turn? Especially as we get older and realize that our looks just aren’t the same as they were in our twenties and early thirties. I realize this need to be seen as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Healing the shame that keeps you stuck</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 07:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I had to describe the men and women that I talk to, those who are trying to gently heal from food stuff, I would describe them in this way:  incredibly kind. Conscientious. Earnest. Sincere. Tender hearted. Sensitive. Empathetic. Spiritual. People with deep values who try to live them out. Often high achieving/setting high expectations [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Becoming attached &#8211; do you judge your pain?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 07:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently shared my theory that refuge &#8211; a deep rooted feeling of belonging, safety and attachment &#8211; is what creates the foundation for growth, maturity, and change with food. I heard from so many tender men and women who resonated with that theory &#8211; and who wondered, Yes, but how?? How do I create [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to respond to family scrutiny about weight</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 15:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may find yourself gathering with friends and family this weekend for Christmas. There&#8217;s something about being around people that you don&#8217;t see everyday that prompts a desire to put your best foot forward. You want to be seen for who you really are, and you want to belong &#8211; to be loved and accepted. [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>You may find yourself gathering with friends and family this weekend for Christmas. There&#039;s something about being around people that you don&#039;t see everyday that prompts a desire to put your best foot forward. You want to be seen for who you really are, and you want to belong - to be loved and accepted.

Of course! We all crave this acceptance.

But what if you&#039;ve gained weight since the last holiday, or since the last time you saw your holiday guests? You may be feeling vulnerable, wondering if you will be judged or criticized. You may wonder - will anyone say anything? What will they be thinking? Will they notice? And this vulnerability, and the undercurrents of anxiety in its wake, can lead right to the food!

I prepared an audio talk about this last year, for a holiday help kit program I offered on my own website. Feedback was tremendous so I offer it on this website for the first time.

In this audio, you&#039;ll find comfort, encouragement, and support if you&#039;re feeling anxious about the opinions of others - about your body or your very self - and the scrutiny it may bring during the holiday season. How do we find peace and soothe the anxiety?</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Why I&#8217;m okay buying the size large</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 12:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week, as I prepared for a live event, I realized I didn&#8217;t have a professional outfit that was also suitable for 90 degree weather. So I went shopping. Big, deep breath. I have historically avoided clothing shopping. (I wasn&#8217;t being flippant when I said I didn&#8217;t have anything to wear.) Yes, there&#8217;ve been financial [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Loving myself unconditionally</title>
		<link>http://www.firstourselves.org/i-will-not-make-war/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 18:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On a daily basis &#8211; often an hourly basis &#8211; I pause, put my hand on my heart and whisper to myself, &#8220;I will not make war against my own heart.&#8221; I have so many opportunities to practice. Every day, I make mistakes. Every day, I want to jump on myself when I make those [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A different way of working with affirmations</title>
		<link>http://www.firstourselves.org/working-with-affirmations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 14:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I first started working on my food and body image &#8220;stuff,&#8221; I used a lot of affirmations. I would say to myself things like, &#8220;I am healthy,&#8221; &#8220;I have a beautiful body,&#8221; or &#8220;I make healthy food choices.&#8221; The only problem was that while I affirmed what I wanted, another voice would immediately pop [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>6</slash:comments>
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		<title>You are never, ever, ever, ever alone.</title>
		<link>http://www.firstourselves.org/you-are-never-alone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 21:45:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I sent out one of those desperate, &#8220;Help me!&#8221; prayers to the universe. Do you know the kind &#8211; when you don&#8217;t even know what to pray for, when you feel so lost, so tired that the only word that you can say is, &#8220;Help?&#8221; Do you know those moments &#8211; when you hurt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Support group for overeaters with compassionate approach</title>
		<link>http://www.firstourselves.org/support-group-overeaters/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2011 20:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karly Randolph Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.firstourselves.org/?p=8424</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hundreds of you have emailed me with this question:  Is abstinence from food addiction, sugar addiction or binge eating possible without weighing, measuring, shaming, controlling, blaming, judging, or &#8220;shoulding&#8221; all over yourself? Can a compassionate approach heal? And if so, where can I find a support group that offers this? In my deepest heart of [...]]]></description>
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