A powerful question to ask ourselves at any moment is, “Who am I believing myself to be right now?” We have lots of identities – the controller (managing life to be just how we want it to be), the producer (someone who gets things done), the fit person, the successful business person, the together woman, [...]
Why I’m okay with being at my heaviest weight
One of the 6 practices of growing human(kind)ness is grounding: giving yourself regular, rhythmic self care so you feel nourished, vital and strong. One thing that I’ve noticed this year is how much more grounding I need when I’m going through a hard time. If your life is extra stressful right now (and I think [...]
Why I don’t Twitter
If you’ve looked for me on Twitter, you haven’t found me. That’s because I don’t Twitter. Here’s why – I love people. I love to foster belonging. I’m a people person, a born extrovert who loves to create community, to find common ground, to create dialogue. In my opinion – and it’s just that – [...]
A poem for the season
My 2010 Holiday Card
Living with my vision of a more wholesome me
My scale tells me that between yesterday and this morning I somehow lost five pounds. I find this very unlikely considering the four cookies I ate yesterday. There is only one explanation: There is a cruel little pixie living in my scale intent on driving me to insanity. What a jerk. Well little pixie, I’m [...]
Find the power in structure, routines and rhythm
How to respond to family scrutiny about weight
You may find yourself gathering with friends and family in thanksgiving. There’s something about being around people that you don’t see everyday that prompts a desire to put your best foot forward. You want to be seen for who you really are, and you want to belong – to be loved and accepted. Of course! [...]
Why weight loss follows self-worth: a fat girl’s journey
Why my daughter thought ‘fat is bad’
Guest author WendiLee is participating in a do-it-from-home class to unhook emotionally from sugar. Last week my daughter had an altercation of sorts with another child in her school. Apparently my darling, honest, brazen little second grade daughter turned to a child in line and stated: “You’re going to be fat when you grow [...]

