How to respond to family scrutiny about weight

You may find yourself gathering with friends and family in thanksgiving. There’s something about being around people that you don’t see everyday that prompts a desire to put your best foot forward. You want to be seen for who you really are, and you want to belong – to be loved and accepted. Of course! [...]

Why weight loss follows self-worth: a fat girl’s journey

Guest author Morgen Reynolds seeks a sugar free life, but still buys chocolate whenever she’s apart from her 3 kids and husband. A writer of children’s stories and a reluctant runner, Morgan can be found in the forum.   I was probably 11 or 12 when I first cried about being fat. We’d gone to [...]

Why my daughter thought ‘fat is bad’

Guest author WendiLee is participating in a do-it-from-home class to unhook emotionally from sugar.   Last week my daughter had an altercation of sorts with another child in her school. Apparently my darling, honest, brazen little second grade daughter turned to a child in line and stated: “You’re going to be fat when you grow [...]

How has your body changed since motherhood?

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The Shape of a Mother, the brainchild of Bonnie Crowder, is a forum where women share photos of themselves before, during, and after pregnancy so they can see real women’s bodies and find greater love for them. Here’s more about Bonnie’s story of learning to love her body, both before and after motherhood: 1. What’s [...]

7 Ways to Feel Proud of Your Body

There are many components to a healthy body image. One of them is body pride:   being proud of the image that you see in the mirror. Loving our bodies means caring for our bodies so that they look and feel their best. It’s good to take pride in your body – to be the best [...]

A Healthy Body Image tip: Unite Your Body with Your Values

Several years ago, I read Your Money or Your Life, a book that changed how I view spending. The authors suggest using money as a natural extension of your values. So, if you value health, you might spend more of your money on organic food. If you value community, you may give more to charity. [...]

Healing the obsession for body perfection

The most popular body image essay I’ve written was this piece on measuring your body in love. Do you look at your body through the eyes of the heart, or the eyes of the critic? It was a similar question I posed to an audience of women and teen girls, as speaker at a body [...]

How to Love Your Body as You Age – 7 Tools for a Healthy Body Image

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As you notice crow’s feet, wrinkles, grey hair, sag, chin hairs, and cellulite appear on your body, how do you react? Do milestone birthdays – 40, 50, 60 – cause you to panic? This was the subject of my conversation, Simple Self-Love, on What Really Matters, the Vicky and Jen podcast. As Vicky and Jen [...]

Jealous of Pretty Women? Turn Your Envy into Inspiration

Editor’s note:  This article has been among the most popular on First Ourselves. Listen to this special message on working with the energy of jealousy to foster growth, peace and freedom. An audio message from Karly, 2 April 2010. 13:14 minutes. Download Audio File » Click the Play button above to listen right now. Or [...]

A Soulful Approach to Your Need for Beauty

Feeling beautiful, I’ve found, has very little to do with the reflection in the mirror, and everything to do with the inner landscape. In my work, I’ve talked with countless stunning women who can neither see nor accept their beauty. I’ve also spoken with size four women who aren’t comfortable wearing a bathing suit in [...]