I recently shared my theory that refuge – a deep rooted feeling of belonging, safety and attachment – is what creates the foundation for growth, maturity, and change with food. I heard from so many tender men and women who resonated with that theory – and who wondered, Yes, but how?? How do I create [...]
Softening my struggle
Loving where you’re at.
Does intuitive eating lead to sugar addiction?
Do you have your heart?
One of the most persnickity challenges to healing are the internal obstacles that keep us from following through on our intentions – the doubt, resistance, the “I don’t want to” and “I don’t feel like it” feelings that get in the way of change. In Heal Overeating: Untangled* (and in these articles here and here) [...]
Why I won’t punish myself after Thanksgiving
I was at my yoga studio yesterday evening and was asking about their schedule for the rest of the week, a holiday week here in the states. As they’re closed for Thanksgiving, the girls at the front desk suggested I try the Friday “burn the bird” class. My body immediately tensed and tightened, and I [...]
How to quiet your inner food cop
I talk with hundreds of men and women who are healing from emotional eating, chronic dieting, binge eating and sugar addiction. And there’s one crucial, essential place where everyone – including me – gets stuck. It’s this: There’s a voice – a chorus of voices – that nags at them all day. This voice is [...]
Are you highly sensitive and sugar addicted?
If you’re someone who is both highly sensitive and sensitive to sugar (which may appear in your life as a susceptability to sugar addiction or overeating), you’re not alone. It’s a pairing that I see over and over again – and one I see in myself. Being highly sensitive means you pick up more from [...]
It’s time to stop being a prisoner of diet dogma
My friend Jane Bernard has powerful things to say about releasing the diet mentality and trusting your own inner wisdom. I invite you to check out her new book, Am I Really Hungry?, a helpful guide to using your intuition to lose weight, stop overeating, and to give your body what it really needs. Read [...]

